@spirea7647

im very sorry to hear that you feel very lonely in your family. im from my japanese dads second family, yet he lives alone as his first family is nowhere to be found. (im in a different city for college). Watching your videos make me appreciate him more by looking at the perspective of a Japanese father supporting his family. i constantly visit him during my school breaks so he doesnt feel lonely.
 My family situation was almost similar to yours, where my father was almost absent throughout my entire childhood because of work. Growing up, it really made me feel sad how I wasnt able to be close to my father. Now, i think my father realizes how important family bonding is, and now always comes home early to make dinner even after a long day of work and watch TV  together. this is how we spend time together and it feels livelier.
I am not aware of the issues happening between you and your family, but i hope you can come back home after work even to eat dinner and talk to them what happened during the day (bonding and communication) with your family and for your 5 year old son. Even little moments like these will sure matter for you, your wife and 5 year old son. the future holds many good things and im sure it will come to you. i wish you a happy life.

@tomkwai

You're not alone.  I'm a lonely husband and father too.  During the day when I'm not at work, I spend my time in cafes and the library.  Nights are hard.  It helped me a lot to watch this video.  I felt less alone.  Good for you that you are creating content!  I'm also working on a side project.  It helps with my low self-esteem.

@싱톤워

당신은 매우 성실하고  정직하고 비교적  가정에 충실한남자로 보이는데 부인과는  우리가 이해못하는 사연이 있나봅니다.
암튼 인생의 갈림길에 서 있을때  현명한 판단하시길.
당신의 행복을 빕니다~

@정은숙-c7d

당신의 솔직함이 마음에 듭니다.
너무 자책하지 마세요.
아들과 아내에게 조금만 더 관심을 가져주면 관계가 나아질거예요. 
당신이 행복해지길 바랍니다.

@Aki-yn4pg

Fura-riiman…..A wandering person. In truth, there are many husbands who avoid going home after work, not just in Japan. They wander around on the streets, running their errands or spend time drinking with their friends. 

They do so because they want to avoid their nagging wives, do not wish to part-take in looking after their young children especially at toddler age or helping out in the house chores, or they are in a bad relationship with their wives and try to avoid each other at all cost to prevent more conflicts. It’s sad but it’s true. 

Honestly, it’s very tiring to be out in the streets after a long day’s work everyday. I hope Samurai Daddy finds light at the end of the tunnel and may God direct you to do what is right to make you and your wife a happier person. ❤

@tina6082

Me and my husband had been in japan several times as  tourist, we're from the Philippines.. we observed that japanese people are kind and helpful

@Meg-m5f

It's not viewers' place to criticize you or try to tell you how to live. I enjoy your vlogs for what they are. I appreciate how self-aware you seem to be and how honest you are with us.

@Iluthra

I see stories about happy couples in Japan, mostly in country towns. So it must be like here in America. It all depends on how much you respect your mate and how much you want to put into the marriage.  Its heartwarming to see old couples express their love with actions and words. When the children come home for visits with their own children, and everyone is happy to be together, you know that household was filled with love.

@Sakura7778-x8i

I don't see any problem with you so please don't think bad about yourself 🫂, you're a good person 😊
Thank you so much for the wonderful video 🤍 your video's never fail to amaze me 😮
Keep staying safe and keep staying healthy 🎀

@LeahAlmazora

Greetings from the Philippines,my dream is to visit Japan someday  ,I want to eat what you are eating in your vlog and also to see the beautiful places there

@sandra-v5t7x

Es ist schon interessant mit dir durch Tokio zu streifen,  Danke dafür💓💓

@herrys6752

I hope you can enjoy your life, it's yours. We learn to  live with compassion to the loved ones.

@claireleamy3168

I think you are very brave to be so honest. Other people can judge you harshly, yet their lives are not perfect either.

@Randalorian

It looks like fun to hang out with you after work! 😊

@ciggieshoreditch507

I enjoy your channel. Thank you for sharing your life. That ramen did look delicious. Take care and keep warm.

@purplypink2993

When my kids were younger and needed to go to bed earlier I still wait for hubby to come home and have dinner ready for him so when he comes home from work all day he has nice home cooked meal! He was appreciated! And I appreciated for him working all day too! And on the weekends we go out have family fun time! Like others said when he comes home his wife never has food ready for him and they were always asleep! Is not really healthy to eat out every night he should cook some thing for himself at home

@nekoventures8304

You may be a Fura riman but you have a peaceful life that's all that matters. No drama, no arguements, no fighting, no shouting. 🥰  The bad fathers are those who beats their wife and kids. You're okay. Marriage is not for everybody 🤝. I'm 40, single, have 4 cats and 3 dogs. My life is busy at work and at home. Every week my nephew visits me because we go in the dog park and I give him money for watching my pets.

@angelsalve8408

I hope things get better for you. I am in Australia & things are done very differently. It takes 2 to keep a marriage & end a marriage. Don't put it all on yourself. I want to visit Japan before I get too old to travel. Considered working over there as am in the medical field.

@lindawilson795

Hello Samari Daddy,
I think your little boy would be very happy to see if you come home after work, give him a big hug, and play with him before he goes to bed. ❤

@annamaghakyan6474

I really like your videos, and i want to come to Japan one day. I learn a lot about Japanese products and restaurants from your blog, and all thanks to you. You are a wonderful person🥰